#Empowerment to Me

“The future is human. It isn’t female.”

By now, you’ve most likely heard Lynzy Lab Stewart’s viral feminist diddy, “A Scary Time.”

The song was inspired by Donald Trump’s comment that it’s a “scary time for young men in America,” during the Kavanaugh debacle. The video rapidly caught public attention–NowThis picked it up, and Lynzy even performed the song live on Jimmy Kimmel’s show.

“It’s time for women to rise up, use our collective voice,” she sang.

That voice may not be as collective as she and other feminists would like to think.

For some women, empowerment looks a little different.

Tired of the genital hats? Wish Kamala Harris would bring it down a notch? Is the Constitution your “jam?”

This parody might be for you. . .

To All the Men Who’ve Changed My Life

I’m beginning to think our country is far less divided than we are just hell-bent on dividing it.

Consequentialism has become the base motivator, resulting in the demonization of countless good things. Just as long as a noble end goal can be reached, casualties can be expected and must be accepted as part of the “worthwhile” cost.

I don’t know exactly what feminism is anymore. I don’t think feminism knows what feminism is, frankly. But for every wronged woman seeking equality and justice, an entire mob follows to avenge her alleged wrong with a no-holds-barred War on Men.

At its worst, this climate is scary for innocent men, and at its best, it’s discouraging.

I’ve long been skeptical of feminism, but the last few weeks have brought times of soul-searching—of me reflecting on my experience as a young woman. Am I viewing men through rose-colored glasses? I wonder. Are they keeping me down? Have they actually taken advantage of me?

Sure, I have my own stories that stand out in my mind—denied opportunities, inappropriate and unwelcomed behavior, verbal indecencies, and scary situations. But those have, without-a-doubt, been the exception to the rule.

Honestly, the more I reflect, the more convinced I become that I wouldn’t be half the woman I am today without the line-up of extraordinary men in my life.

I regret this has not been every woman’s experience. Sexual abuse and harassment are alive and well, and plenty a powerful man has taken advantage of women both sexually and professionally to get ahead and to gratify himself. For that, there is no excuse.

It’s important to note, however, that those are not the only men we know. In fact, they are not most of the men we know.

This narrative is one of hope, both for women who feel hopeless about the existence of good men in the world and for those good men who have gone unnoticed, or worse—rallied against.

This is the story I stand for. This is the narrative I speak.

To all the men who’ve changed my life, thank you.

Now That’s a Big F***** Rocket!

The affluent are over the moon for new SpaceX developments, but they are the only ones.

Elon Musk’s company, SpaceX, just revealed the identity of its first passenger who will be rocketed around the moon and back.

Meet Yusaku Maezawa, Japanese billionaire entrepreneur and skateboarder. Maezawa, who made his billions founding Zozotown (Japan’s largest online clothing retailer) prefers to be called “MZ,” but his plebeian followers favor his Twitter handle: @yousuck2020.

Maezawa’s big bucks have secured for him a voyage in the Big F***** Rocket. That’s right, SpaceX’s very own Big Falcon Rocket (BFR) which eclipses SpaceX’s other innovations—Falcon 9, Falcon Heavy, and Dragon—will transport the billionaire to outer space.

Musk made the announcement at SpaceX’s headquarters in Hawthorne, California, live streaming the reveal through SpaceX’s YouTube channel. There he introduced a grinning Maezawa who declared, “I choose to go to the moon!”

Maezawa’s revelation is not quite accurate as he will actually be traveling around the moon and back—no pit stops for moonwalking.

That is if the trip ever happens. Houston, we have a problem: the BFR doesn’t exist yet.

Musk projects the launch will take place in 2023, but he stated, “It’s not 100% certain we can bring this to flight.” In all his excitement, hopefully “MZ” Warbucks realizes the gravity of the situation: he may not be lifting off for a while.

While forking over millions of dollars for a space voyage puts the “luna” in lunacy, for Maezawa, the trip is about more than just a personal joy ride. Rather than purchasing a single seat on the spacecraft, Maezawa will be buying out the entire flight as part of a project he is calling #dearMoon.

“I choose to go to the moon with artists,” said Maezawa, who hopes to inspire painters, sculptors, photographers, musicians, and others to create stellar, nay, interstellar masterpieces.

“What if Basquiat had gone to space and had seen the moon up close?” asked Maezawa. “What if Picasso had gone to the moon or Andy Warhol? Or Michael Jackson or John Lennon or Coco Chanel?”

Maezawa said he will ask six to eight artists to accompany him, but he has not yet selected the lucky creators. Of all the people on the planet he could choose, it’s a good thing Maezawa decided to foot the bill for a collection of hit singer-songwriters, artists, and fashion designers. I don’t know much about science, but relatively speaking, we indigent non-rockstars will function as “non-accelerating observers”* in this equation.

For his part, Musk has different ideas about space travel.

“The reason for creating SpaceX was . . . to help advance rocket technology to the point where we could potentially become a multi-planet species and a true space-bearing civilization . . . There could be some natural event or some man-made event that ends civilization as we know it or life as we know it. So it’s important that we try to become a multi-planet civilization—extend life beyond earth—and to do so as quickly as we can,” said Musk.

While Maezawa really paints a picture of creative possibility, Musk prepares to throw that painting into the burning remnants of post-apocalyptic earth while he escapes to Mars. Regardless, Musk hopes eventually to make space travel possible for the common folk.

That’s the million-dollar ticket.

*Joke about Einstein’s Theory of Relativity . . . Don’t worry about it.

Article originally published for Consumers’ Research.

Christianos Pizza: The “Wise” Way to Do Business

It’s 5:00 a.m. on Saturday in downtown Wautoma. Most of the town is still dreaming and will be for several hours. But the lights flick on in the kitchen of Christianos Pizza, bringing it to life once again.

Flour begins to fly as the mixer hums. A mountain of pizza dough rises on the cool stainless-steel countertop. One stray fly bumps repetitively into the glass of the front door, longing for the freedom of the patio. Meanwhile, a steaming cup of fresh Colectivo coffee accompanies an open Bible on one of the corner dining room booths.

Like every morning for the past 20 years, Larry Wise sits in the solitude of the restaurant he labored to create, the only sounds being the whir of his mixer and his own voice echoing his faith in God. “He was behind this all.”

Larry is the owner and CEO of Christianos Pizza in Wautoma, Wisconsin. A successful business, Christianos is in its twenty-second year of operation and has expanded to four restaurant locations, thanks to Larry’s business philosophy and work ethic.

Food. Faith. Family.

Food, faith, and family. As a Christian father operating a family restaurant business, those three words sum up Larry’s motivations and priorities.

It takes a special kind of know-how and experience to open a family restaurant, but Larry certainly has it.

As an 11-year-old boy living in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Larry began working his first job in a deli owned by an Italian family. A few years later, his best friend’s family opened an Italian pizza restaurant. Leaving the deli to aid in the pizza start-up, Larry worked in the restaurant seven days a week.

Larry attributes his business-building knowledge to his first two jobs. “I was able to see at a very young age how [the owners] built their businesses—door-to-door handing out menus, treating customers as family, and appreciating and valuing every customer,” Larry said.

Larry carried his business interest with him throughout other jobs and knew that one day he wanted to start his own pizza restaurant.

“I’d always tell my wife, ‘This would make a good pizza place,’ –every town we moved to. ‘That would make a good pizza place.’ I saw Christianos, which was [then] a condemned building—and I mean condemned—and I said, ‘That would be the perfect place.’ The very next day, there was a ‘For Sale’ sign on it. So I said, ‘Lord, if you want this to come about, it’s going to be your making, not mine.’”

Personal pan Christianos pizza

Business Beginnings

Doors began to open for Larry to move forward with the building purchase.

“[The owner] wanted $25,000 for [the building] and a dummy like me that would come in and rebuild it. And what bank would loan a guy with no money and five kids $100,000 to do that? No one in their right mind. But they did.”

Even amidst faith and providence, Larry still faced daunting obstacles such as debt risk and the immensity of the building project.

“It was very risky to go into that kind of debt, not only to open a pizza restaurant but to build a pizza restaurant,” said Larry. “When we first started, I would check my bank account every day. There were a lot of worries—a lot of sleepless nights that went along with it.”

But Larry didn’t allow himself to be overcome by obstacles and worries, and his four thriving restaurants are proof of his determination. So how did Larry go from checking his bank account daily to prospering as a CEO?

Rolled-up Sleeves

Larry’s daughter, Megan Werch, who is highly active in the restaurant, ascribes Larry’s success partially to his involvement in every aspect of the business. “Every Saturday night, he’s bussing tables,” she said. Personal interaction with the customers allows Larry to gain real customer feedback and relate to those he serves.

This business practice fits perfectly into Larry’s overall business philosophy, which he states this way: “To be a blessing to customers, employees, and everyone we come in contact with, in regards to food quality and their experience. We want our customers to be glad they came here. And we want our employees to have that same blessing—to be happy they work here. I believe that’s God’s will: we bless others, and in return, we are blessed.”

The flourishing restaurants show that Christianos is indeed providing a great experience to its always-returning customers, but Larry has also ensured that his employees derive the same benefit.

“I think my favorite part about working there is the whole family atmosphere that Larry and his family create for the restaurant, both for the employees and customers that come through,” said Wautoma server Lauren McCartney. “[He] makes sure to create the best experience for my coworkers and me.”

Life Lessons

Young adults and aspiring leaders can learn from Larry’s example.

Megan has observed a growing trend of today’s young business entrepreneurs simply wanting to become bosses or overseers without having to get their hands dirty.

“As a young entrepreneur, [you have to] know every aspect of your business, and do every aspect of your business, from payroll to delivering pizzas to making pasta,” said Megan.

Sean Wise, son of owner Larry Wise, tosses pizza dough in Christianos kitchenTwenty-two years into Christianos’ operation, and Larry still lives by that, although the day-to-day operations have become smoother than they used to be. Larry knows he can’t take all the credit and attributes much of the success to his children who have worked alongside him to create a quality brand.

“I do whatever is needed, but the restaurants are staffed very well and managed very well so I’m not the ‘go-to-guy’ like I was 20 years ago,” said Larry.

Larry continues to adapt to changing times in the way he conducts his business. His plan moving forward is to expand his carry-out and delivery services to meet the demand for in-home dining without the hassle of in-home cooking. Customers can expect to see innovative “to-go” dining options in the coming months. He also plans to open a fifth Christianos location in Appleton, Wisconsin, next year.

Regardless of Larry’s goals for the future and his long-term plans, he will never forget his humble beginnings and the origin of his success. He didn’t start at the top, and he hasn’t so soon forgotten.

You can bet that tomorrow morning he will be in the Christianos kitchen bright and early, mixing dough, sipping his cup of joe, and pouring out gratitude.

Traditional vs. Cutting-Edge Economy

With the innovative “share-to-share” or “peer economy” on the rise, Americans are reaping the benefits of competitive prices and experiencing more affordable ways to travel and lodge. However, some consumers have stuck to the comfort of the traditional economy. After all, isn’t climbing into a stranger’s car or sleeping in an unfamiliar basement risky?

I’ll tell you everything you need to know!

This broadcast was produced for use by Radio America, the University of Delaware, and The Kylee Zempel Blog. You can find the podcast version here.

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